Sissy Crossdresser Erotic Degradation & Humiliation 101
FACT: A Sissy Crossdresser
LOVES TO BE HUMILIATED
Let’s talk about Erotic Degradation & Humiliation during SEX (Oral & Anal)
Although this is written specifically for Sissy Crossdressers (as I am a Sissy Pornstar), the following can be applied & used by all sexual preferences.
But First: A Disclaimer!
Before we talk about how passionate submissive sissy crossdressers are about being degraded and humiliated, let’s talk through an important disclaimer:
Have I mentioned safe-space and open-conversations enough?
If not, let me mention it for a 100th time.
Do not assume your partner is into something unless you ask, confirm, and approve ahead of time. I ask a million times and confirm before I try anything with my partners.
One of the kinkiest fucking expereinces (once you have approval and are both in agreement), is the degradation and humiliation play.
Now that you have consent and approval; let’s go!
What is Erotic Humiliation?
Erotic Humiliation is most often done during dominant/submissive play and can fall under the umbrella of” psychological sadomasochism”, but for me it is less intense and more erotic.
Erotic humiliation can be delivered verbally, physically, or be a combination of both.
Rebecca Jay, LMSW, expands on the wide variety of ways people can play with humiliation. “[Humiliation kinks] are often very personal and can range from verbal humiliation (insults, mockery, belittling) to physical humiliation (water sports, being used as furniture, being forced to lick someone's boots).”
(source: https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-humiliation-kink)
Why is Erotic Humiliation So Fucking Hot?
Most people drawn to this form of sexual play are drawn to playing with control, power and dominance because it builds connection and trust in their relationship (even if it’s no-strings attached, as is the case with my hookups).
How to make Humiliation Hot?
As I noted above, the first step is to be sure that both of you are into this play. I always ask my hookups ahead of time if they are into dom/sub play, and then follow up with “If I were to wear a leash and collar, would you walk me around the hotel room like a good girl?”. Their response usually dedictates the next steps.
If you don’t have examples from your own life to pull from, think about things you’ve seen in movies or read in books that have made you squirm or blush.
Here are my FAVORITE ways to be humiliated & degradated!
Good God, for sissies who are submissive like me, this is pure fucking heaven. Here are a few fun ideas for you to try out with your partner. Enjoy these as I have tried them all!
By the way, try any one of these next time you have sex and watch your life change forever!
